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By Dan Bodine
Today's tendency among many people to
“blame and complain” about something on one hand while
complacently refusing to get involved in any remedial effort to help
solve or correct it on the other is probably as old as Adam.
It's accented in our modern state by
the U. S.'s move toward setting up a permanent safety net, or welfare state.
Independent entitlement payments weaken bonds of dependency
upon each other.
“If it ain't my dog involved, what're
you up here in my face about it for?!” is the common street buzz now.
It's a put-off answer as old,
indeed, as there've been competitive, economic markets
probably. The old saw, “depending on whose ox is being gored,”
didn't arise from some Arabian magical lamp.
A big difference today, of course, is
the larger scale--when needs go unanswered, or critical projects
can't be completed—of failure. Since society in general
bears the brunt of it, the imprint of it is larger.
Indeed, lack of help on a project, or contributions needed to finance its
completion, is Society's silent thief in many ways.
People will never know individually,
for instance, what they could've been or could've done
by not getting involved, nor what their country
could've become. They've sat back silently and exchanged a
certain degree of comfort for mediocrity (regardless if the exchange is
real, false, or imagined upon them).
But is the welfare state – coming
hand-in-hand, as it has, with a technological revolution --
the chicken or the rotten egg? It appears we're either tragically
cruel or arrogantly indifferent at times. One answer lies in the
degree of differences you'll accept in a class society, has been my
usual reply.
Indeed, some look at our situation
today and see us “slouching toward Gomorrah.” But historians,
too, will point out it's a re-occurring theme thru the history of our
civilization. Like good rainfall on parched lands, threatened lakes
will re-energize with some good rains.
Some fishing holes will come back; some
are gone forever -- existing only as a vague, rose-colored memory of
a once was to someone
– as the Earth continues to spin seemingly indifferently on its axis thru the changes.
Along with this — in rhythm with it
at times even -- the natural condition of human sloth breathes upon
us in larger or smaller degrees. It's been around probably as long as
sexual discretion. Or at least since the Garden eviction, for
sure. It's been a he-said/she-said world since. Exponentially
expanding and contracting, too!
This whole topic was raised by my ol'
blogging friend Jim Myers in an earlier post on The
Country
Cogitator.
For maybe 25-30 years he's donated his
time to youth sports. No doubt he's keenly aware, for instance, of
the problem of having angry parents in your face on one hand, because of a personnel decision, i.e., versus their invisibility when finances or help for common projects are sought.
There're people who give, and people
who take. Sometimes forever; sometimes depending upon the
year, or the season. Life tends to move in patterns that track how
they're used, or not used in life.
Indeed, it's probably the oldest con
game around. What many don't fully realize though is exactly who is
doing the conning, and who is being conned.
In exponentially higher
situations—which, yes, covers much of our stressed-out modern
era—often the conner and the connee
are one and the same.
When truth comes to that person thru enlightenment or
revelation (e.g., a burning bush or a wife's skillet on the
back of the head!) … Ah, then action! It explains why progress
in the world moves in pulls and jerks—Folks pulling along
fine here; then a group suddenly jerking there, to break things
up. For what? Progress?
This is scattershooting some, of
course, for I've spent the past 25 years in poor border communities
on the Rio Grande. But most differences Jim and I (or
any two people, really) may have gathered in our lives, vary
according to how we've perceived class situations locally.
Human nature is human nature – even
though overriding it to a certain extent, still, is a deep belief in
the basic goodness of men and women.
But a common response, yes, anyone will
encounter today in asking for community help is, flatly, “No I
don't want to get involved”; or “No I can't get
involved.”
It means the cause against the
causee isn't popular enough yet with some of my social or
financial connections for me to risk breaking them, not without, in the sum
aftermath, of getting hurt individually in some way for it.
In becoming a diversified
society, it appears not only have our differences been magnified but
also the differences separating us, the intensity of our feelings,
have grown, too.
The question of where or when
that critical breaking point of too much will occur still lingers, however. And if history is still an indicator, a
relapse to pulling in peace will settle back into the country for awhile.
Thus if “Peyton Place” chronicled
the interconnectedness of the 50's village, Miley Cyrus and
her twerks now reflect our separateness in the early
21st decades. But history hasn't written its next chapter
yet, one can always argue.
Was social policy the chicken or the
egg in all this? Or technology? The government's safety net, in effect, has made folks less dependent on
each others' oxen, for instance. They have an additional source of
revenue--government.
If a sacred cow gets gored, so what? But entitlements are iffy,
flowing with political correctness. Technology has muddied
(prolonged?) this cycle of change, essentially, by creating new opportunities.
The internet and YouTube et al, i.e.,
give you the freedom and opportunity to make another one! A connection. Another
cow. And the beat goes on! We're still not holding hands
together though.
If there's any relief for wearied
old-timers – like Jim and I are rapidly becoming (in the face of
this new-age thinking) -- it's in our awareness of history.
“This, too, shall pass” is a
refrain we've lived thru sufficiently enough for it to be a true
lesson.
The problem with growing old though is
time. It shortens tolerance. And there's just not enough of it
to listen to or to watch all this
stuff! Meaning change our lifestyle cadence; to get in step with the times.
Hee,
hee. That's why you see so many in the older generations spending so
much time at domino tables somewhere. Or at home in their gardens.
They're elected to continue to
keep up with what once was,
rather than what now is. It's less disruptive. And it's still a free country.
Until
another Big Jerk
comes along. And forces them to do something out of their routine. For better or for worse.
Life. It's still a many splendored thing.
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